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Severely Wounded Heroes

Mary Dague

U.S. Army Sergeant (Ret.)

Called to serve after 9/11, Mary signed up for one of the most dangerous jobs in the military. While deployed to Iraq, she was disabling a hidden explosive when it triggered. Instinctively, she hugged the bomb to her body.

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She Lost Her Arms, Never Her Fighting Spirit

Like all of us, Mary Dague remembers 9/11 like it was yesterday.

"I was only a junior in high school, but I’ll never forget that day. I heard the reports on the radio as I drove to school. My classmates and I watched as the second tower fell. I wanted to help, but couldn’t at the time. It was a life-changing experience for our whole country."

She Chose One Of The Most Dangerous Jobs

Of the hundreds of ways Mary could have served, she chose one of the most dangerous—as an Explosive Ordinance Disposal (EOD) Tech in the Army. An EOD Tech is trained to uncover and diffuse live explosives.

Soon, she was deployed to Iraq.

She Instinctively Hugged The Bomb Against Her Body

November 4, 2007 started just like any other day, when her team was called to dispose of an IED placed between a school and apartment buildings. Mary and her team leader dismantled the device, and separated most of the components for transport. After laying the IED in the back of the truck, she noticed the device rocking back and forth.

Instinctively, she hugged the IED against her body to shield her team from the blast.

The explosion threw Mary into the Humvee behind her. Both of her arms were instantly amputated. Her ear drums burst. Shrapnel tore across her face.

Within 15 minutes, Mary was in the Medevac helicopter.

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"And I Did It With A Smile"

"I battled my way through recovery, surgeries, depression, body dysmorphia, and fought to get off the myriad of drugs I was on for over a year. And I did it with a smile. Because maybe seeing me smile would help the other troops recovering at Brooke Army Medical Center; maybe it would help my family accept what happened to me; maybe it would assuage my team's survivors guilt. I hope it did."

Mary eventually moved back to Washington to be close to her unit. There, she met the love of her life, James, an EOD Tech as well. As she jokes, “a more successful one than I.”

He has remained by Mary's side through all the challenges, including a battle with breast cancer.

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Help Us Build A Home Where Mary Can Thrive

The Gary Sinise Foundation is proud to build a specially adapted home for Mary and James. The home will be a sanctuary for them, where she can pursue her artistic passions and share time with loved ones.

You can help us ease Mary's journey and honor her incredible sacrifices. Make a donation today.

Wall of Gratitude

Mary Dague

EOD Family Always. Thanks for your service
R. Passmore
Alabama
Thank you for your service! You are a strong and brave woman. I hope you and your husband have a lifetime of happiness together; you deserve nothing less.
T.
Florida
Saw your post about your new house . You are one of the strongest women I know and you deserve everything good that happens to you Take care Steve Kosier EOD STA / SME
S. Kosier
Colorado
Thank you for your service Mary. Your one tough lady.
A. Marion
Arizona
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. There are no words strong enough to express all the love and life I wish you and your family! God bless you!
M. Bamler
Ohio
The Lord blessed the latter part of Jobs life more than the first. He had fourteen thousand sheep, six thousand camels, a thousand yoke of oxen and a thousand donkeys. And he also had 7 sons and 3 daughters. After this Job lived a hundred forty years. He saw his children and their children to the 4t
K. C
Tennessee
So glad to see you appear to be doing well. Congratulations to the both of you on your new home; hopefully the adaptations make life easier for you both. Thank you for your sacrifices. May you both be blessed with continued happiness and health. NAVSCOLEOD 03-210S
D. Larson
Washington
L Mary I hope you and James have a long and happy life in this beautiful home. I’m sure you all will make it a wonderful place with plenty of happiness. I wish you nothing but the best good luck God bless you and your husband.
B. Harvey
North Carolina
L Mary I hope you and James have a long and happy life in this beautiful home. I’m sure you all will make it a wonderful place with plenty of happiness. I wish you nothing but the best good luck God bless you and your husband.
B. Harvey
North Carolina
Ma'am, you give a new meaning to the word hero! Because of your heroism, other soldiers were able to make it home to their families. God bless you and my family and I are truly thankful for your service.
J. Miller
North Carolina
Thank you for your selfless service and courage.
P. Reilly
New York
Mary our world is a better place because you’re in it. Thank you for being you, and for your service. With peace and love,
C. osgood
Vermont
Mary WOW. I read your story on LinkedIn. Wow- Superman can’t even hold a candle to you !
W. Goebel
California
Thank you for your service and sacrifice. You have persevered through enormous challenges. You are an amazing person and warrior. I wish you and your family the very best. Your Navy Family, HM1(SW) RET. Holmes, Matthew
M. Holmes
Florida
God bless you and your husband. I hope you enjoy your home. I am also a recipient of a R.I.S.E home. Thank you for your service.
R. Camargo
Florida
Mary you are a true hero and it is awesome that you are about to receive a beautiful new home. Thank you for all you've done in service to the country. Blessings to you.
M. Betz
Iowa
  

 
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